by Chrysa Smith
I’m no yoga expert. In fact, I’ve only ever taken one class. But I know enough that it makes fans feel quite good, keeping them limber, grounded and in the moment.
Being in the moment, however, is something I’m very familiar with. Learning how to de-stress by not focusing on the unknown, possibly unlikely or unknowingly fantastic has been part of my wheelhouse. And I wish it were for others.
Take for example, having a baby. Almost as soon as you’ve popped one out, after the expected commentary on names and cuteness comes the dreaded question: So, are you going to have another? As a mom of one, that especially strikes a chord because it soon becomes implied that my decision may be wrong. But I’ve learned that
it’s just part and parcel of human nature to jump right onto the next thing. And so it is with books and authorship.
For those of you who’ve done it, you know writing a book is no small feat. It takes hours of creative imagination, planning, time at the computer, time with the editor, the illustrator and possibly the agent or publishing house. From my experience, it can take the better part of a year. And when that shipment comes to you, it’s like Christmas morning. The anticipation is great, seeing your work in print. Your name on it. And finally, a tangible good that others will hopefully buy and enjoy. You’re on a cloud, and whether or not it’s a best seller, at that very moment, matters not. Because you’ve accomplished something great. Something that’s not around every door step. You’re walking on air and then someone does it. ‘Are you working on anything else?’ WHAT? Come on now. Can you please take some time with me and celebrate what is? What is to be celebrated at this very moment? Can you stay focused in the moment and not miss the joy of it by focusing on the future?
Truth be known, most authors do have ideas floating around, but when a new book comes out is not the time to say it. Better to delight in someone else’s joy and just say ‘om.’